How do doulas work with partners?

Doulas can help coach the partner to participate in the labour and birth at their comfort level. Even simply a doulas presence allows the partner not to feel guilty or torn when they need to use the bathroom, get something to eat, or update the waiting family. They know that someone is there to help, to back them up. Doulas can help explain the benefits, risks, and alternatives of different procedures so even after labouring for hours, you can make the best decision for you and your family. In this way, the doula is helping you advocate for your choices and navigating the unfamiliar scene.

Will having a doula make it less intimate?

In most hospital births, the staff are unfamiliar to you and they may change shifts in the middle of the birth. The doula will be a continuous familiar person and support because you have met with her at least twice before the birth to discuss your desires for your birth as well as practiced comfort techniques. A doula will still give you time to yourselves to enjoy the wonders of birth.

Doulas allow partners to experience birth!

Having a doula present allows partners to witness birth in which ever way they are comfortable. A doula can hold mom's hand so you can see your baby being born or can take pictures of the birth. A doula can support mom while you tell her she is the most powerful woman in the world. The options are endless.

Doulas do not replace partners!

A partner will always have something over the doula, you love and know your partner! Combine those loving and encouraging words with massage or position ideas from your doula and your voice will be the loudest in the room. You are giving her the best of both worlds - love and expertise!